{"id":1950,"date":"2019-06-17T00:00:12","date_gmt":"2019-06-17T06:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.melaniebnewman.com\/staging\/9944\/?p=1950"},"modified":"2022-04-18T15:34:19","modified_gmt":"2022-04-18T21:34:19","slug":"the-high-cost-of-worry","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.melaniebnewman.com\/staging\/9944\/the-high-cost-of-worry\/","title":{"rendered":"The High Cost of Worry"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Do you realize that worry has a price?<\/p>\n<p>What would you experience if you do not give in to worry?<\/p>\n<p>I recently had the opportunity to consider that cost.<\/p>\n<p>A few months ago, I was in the hospital waiting for my husband to come out of surgery. It would have been easy for me to be anxious, and even worried.<\/p>\n<h3>Worry is living in fear of what might go wrong. It has been likened to having faith in a negative outcome.<\/h3>\n<p>Living in fear of what might happen diminishes our ability to make good decisions. It costs emotionally as well as physically.<\/p>\n<p>How easy it is to take that path, thinking of every bad thing that might happen.<\/p>\n<h3>Instead, what if we would choose to be present? Not denying our feelings but not dwelling on what might go wrong.<\/h3>\n<p>If I had let my concern turn into anxiety, I would have missed out on:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>associating with capable and skilled doctors and attentive nurses.<\/li>\n<li>receiving the well-wishes of family and friends.<\/li>\n<li>developing a new friendship with a woman also waiting for her husband\u2019s surgery.<\/li>\n<li>twice hearing the lullaby played over the intercom when a new baby was born.<\/li>\n<li>admiring the courage, effort and quick healing of a determined man to do all he could to get well.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Why would I want to exchange any of that goodness for the all-consuming self-attention of worry? The cost is much too high.<\/p>\n<p>With love,<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-462\" src=\"https:\/\/www.melaniebnewman.com\/staging\/9944\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/signature.png\" alt=\"Melanie Newman\" width=\"223\" height=\"73\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you realize that worry has a price? What would you experience if you do not give in to worry? I recently had the opportunity to consider that cost. 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